I’ll get around to this later.
Love me the most when I deserve it the least, because that’s when I really need it. Swedish Proverb
About 47 gazillion years ago (give or take a gazillion or two) I realised I was a lesbian. Some years after that, I did something about it and in that very year – which may have been 1991, but I’m honestly not sure – I realised I was am a dyke. By 1999 I’d started to write lots and lots and lots about it all, mainly online with a few forays into print, from various floors and couches and chairs in the UK and South Africa (which is where I am now).
For no sane reason at all, despite the fact that writing and editing are what i do best, i started to draw cartoons very badly.
lesbian neurotica 
January 5th, 2010 at 01:50
Thanks for the positive comment, I like the honesty and humour in your blogs.
January 5th, 2010 at 02:18
thanks for returning the visit :)
January 25th, 2010 at 16:51
many thanks for visiting and comments…we’re enjoying reading your thoughts too :)
January 25th, 2010 at 19:28
excellent, thanks :)
February 3rd, 2010 at 00:02
The strange thang around here is that the youngsters think it’s an insult to say Dyke. Have noticed it on irc as well as in that Q-roc.tv video on MY Cayann blog. OMG stay away from irc rotfl.Ha Ha.
February 3rd, 2010 at 00:06
i only venture near irc when i’m feeling especially retro.
February 6th, 2010 at 20:56
…and you might like to add this to your collection of dyke blogs….its 5 star :)
http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/
February 7th, 2010 at 18:11
yeh it is – visited that a week or two ago, i shall add it. would be delighted to get a link back, but no tantrums if you don’t ;)
February 7th, 2010 at 18:27
oh but we already did!
February 7th, 2010 at 18:55
ah YEH it’s you guys!!
February 14th, 2010 at 01:59
hey…sorry we had to remove our last post (‘Everything’) which you had commented on. We had some issues
after posting, which led to the deletion. But please do keep visiting us and commenting, we really appreciate it!
February 14th, 2010 at 17:54
no probs and of course i’ll keep visiting – i have you listed on le blog surfer function :)
February 17th, 2010 at 18:52
Hay. Y wanna Submit. Have no password. Is thiS a private club?
Email ME babe fyrequeen@live.com
butt only if You really really want it
;-)
February 18th, 2010 at 04:12
umm…how do we get a password for the locked posts?
February 18th, 2010 at 10:36
meet me at midnight where the jackal feeds … or, just shoot me an email at spr [dot] serious [at] gmail [dot] com :)
February 18th, 2010 at 19:49
aha, very secret. thank you …will mail.
February 18th, 2010 at 20:09
… and my mail generally seems to go into people’s spam folder, so check there, i’ll def reply :)
February 20th, 2010 at 17:21
yes indeed – it has disappeared. i think the jackal got it.
February 21st, 2010 at 15:16
i didn’t get your email :( give me your addy and i’ll mail you?
February 21st, 2010 at 15:51
it is: aappathachchiya@gmail.com
many thanks.
February 21st, 2010 at 18:35
check your spam folder! :)
March 20th, 2010 at 20:52
have you seen this one:
http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/
for SDL perhaps…
March 21st, 2010 at 15:18
def! thanks :)
April 15th, 2010 at 15:03
Darling, I hope you are having a 5 Bar Pin day today!
Lots of sexy hugs for you,
Doris
April 15th, 2010 at 22:45
any day with my gf is one of those ;)
June 22nd, 2010 at 18:30
Thanks for checking out my quiet little blog. I’m going to enjoy coming back to yours! Your bold humor is refreshing.
June 23rd, 2010 at 06:15
thank you v much indeed + i’ll be visiting you too
July 4th, 2010 at 19:35
no more passworded posts =)
July 7th, 2010 at 05:08
I love how you own the word dyke. Nice!
July 7th, 2010 at 11:10
I think it sounds way cooler than lesbian
July 8th, 2010 at 16:59
Hey! Thanks for stopping by the blog, look forward to reading more of yours and seeing your cartoons!
GG
July 20th, 2010 at 16:43
Oh thanks granny – only just saw ur comment :)
July 22nd, 2010 at 11:32
z0mg! someone gave me a less-than-5-star rating on this post. *sob*
;)
August 28th, 2010 at 17:55
Hey Ulla – is that you? I’ve been trying to track you down for ages ! Trying to find a way to get a contact address for you. Anyhoo it’s the only way I’ve been able to find you. I’d give you a 5 * rating. Your blogs are cool. I’m your old Scottish mate who met you one day in December 1987 in SA when a wee calf was born on your farm and you decided to call it Catriona!! Get in touch if you want. It would be absolutely magic to catch up ! Love T x
August 11th, 2010 at 17:31
SO much going on for my family this summer and I don’t know how it will shake out. But until then, I do know that my step-son’s bio dad (wife & mother) read my blog trolling for anything he can “use” against my family. So time to lock down even more.
If you already have a WordPress “account” (even if you don’t blog on WP — or at all) then I believe you can simply “sign in” with that and read my blog. The pic. attached to this email shows that I have added as many of my regular commenters as I think already may have a WP login. If you have a WP login, feel free to email it to me and I will add you to that list!
Read you soon!! :)
August 30th, 2010 at 06:46
Trina! Wow! Yay! Also, check your mail.
September 7th, 2010 at 03:52
Honesty is a virtue; you are candid and clearly comfortable in your skin.
Thanks for stopping by my new blog -TheMisadventuresOfaConservativeLesbian.wordpress.com – and being kind enough to introduce yourself. It’s a little out there for me as I am, after all, a conservative . . .
I look forward to reading your past and future posts – and hope that you will follow my misadventures in eDating and whatever other situations I find myself in.
Thanks again –
September 8th, 2010 at 01:22
What’s a little out there? And when you say conservative, do you mean politically, personally, or both? For sure I will visit you again :)
September 9th, 2010 at 22:44
Hey, thanks for checking out my blog. I love yours! :)
September 12th, 2010 at 05:08
Like your sense of humour, not many people can laugh at themselves
September 13th, 2010 at 09:02
Thank you thank you thank you
November 2nd, 2010 at 05:57
Hi,
I am the webmaster of a new LGBT discussion forum website at called Gaytorium.com. I enjoy your site and I feel that my users would find your content complementary and enjoy it as well.
Would you be interested in doing a link exchange?
The link to your site will be posted in the site’s blogroll forum: http://www.gaytorium.com/forum775.html
Thank you,
Michael Viola
December 9th, 2010 at 10:01
A link in a forum…pass…
December 27th, 2010 at 22:30
Thanks for checking out my blog and giving me some encouragement/advice. I’ve enjoyed reading the posts on your blog. I dig your sense of humor and honesty…quite refreshing.
December 28th, 2010 at 22:26
*Blip*
Only just managed to register. Hope all is well in your world. Send news? xx
April 26th, 2019 at 09:33
Hi, nice to know you. My name is Laura.
I don’t know if you still read comments on your blog. I’m gonna come to Canada on holidays and I’d like to know someone in the place. I will be in Toronto. I found you in the blog of Nina Trigvason 😊